Flirting Academy - Points for Successfull Communications

The Qualities of a Success-Flirt

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A Success-Flirt

- knows that feeling good about him/herself is the first step to successful flirting

- knows that making other people feel good about themselves is the key to successful communication

- knows how to listen to what others say and extract their meaningful words

- A Success-Flirt knows how to uncover the needs of others and give them what they want

- is always open to talking and communicating with new people

- is always willing to make the first move

- is seeking not to conquer but to get to win/win

- sends out positive energy to everyone around them

- looks at new people as an opportunity to connect

- doesn't hesitate to ask for what he/she wants

- gives out a glow that attracts others to him/her magnetically

- wants to share his/her friends with other people

- knows how to give just the right compliments to the right people and mean what they say

- pays attention to the energetic qualities of other people and moderates their own energy accordingly

- knows how to modulate his/her voice tone to the rhythm and pitch of people she/he is interacting with

- knows how to interrupt at just the right moment to break into a group

- is mindful of other people's personal space and tests the water before diving in

- expects success to come to him/her

- plans sets out an intent in the world for how they want their life to be and then lets go

- knows how to ask the right questions to get more meaning from the words of others

- is always aware of the minute physical/body language changes in other people and adjusts accordingly.

is liked by most and doesn't worry about those who don't.

- doesn't operate from envy, jealousy or ambition but from wanting the world to be a more harmonious place.



Copyright © 1999 Peta Heskell

turn ons
Men and Women who are well dressed and well groomed
Intelligence, wit, strength, and compassion
The ocean, hot baths, swimming pools
Sensual food - honey, olive oil, wine, fruit, cream, chocolate syrup
Music and Dancing
offs:
Uncleanliness
Vulgarity - i.e. bodily functions and the discussion of them
Rude, selfish, vain people convinced of their own superiority
Stupidity (not ignorance - just an allowed lack of knowledge)
A lack of small, furry animals